"I want you to become men and women who are easily moved by God's inspiration. ...We are happy and alive just so much as our ears are open to His voice and our eyes to His handiwork. That is what I wish for you...."
--Hilda van Stockum, Canadian Summer
Monday, February 2, 2015
Feast of the Presentation
It has been almost a year since I wrote anything here. But today was a good day, and I want to remember it. It was mostly an ordinary day. But in the time since we have been back from Japan, we have really been struggling just to get back to ordinary, and today, finally, I feel it. Ordinary.
It's a little funny that this day has fallen on a Feast Day in Ordinary Time. A time to fall back, regroup from the high feast days of Christmas and breathe before the somber days of Lent arrive (in just over 2 weeks!).
An ordinary day. I took John to the train station at 6:30 as usual and met my friend Mary, who I walk with three times a week, at Magruder Park at 6:50. We actually arrived at the park at the same time today. Neither one of us had to wait. Nice. Not that we mind waiting, but it was nice to start our walk immediately.
I got home with a few minutes to spare for a drink of water and to get the kids moving for Mass. Everyone found their shoes, coats, mittens, etc. We walked to Dan and Taryn's to pick up Benedict (only a little late--pretty good for a Monday), and arrived at Mass before the Gospel. Okay, we do need to do better at that. But we got there. And we got home. And we remembered to pray the Morning Offering on the way and the Rosary for our parish priests on the way home.
School time. Matthew was tired and struggled a bit, but he overcame it and finished his work and piano practice before a quick lunch. He went to co-op and choir. Choir finished early and he got a bonus playtime with his friend, Elias, which he would not have had if his work hadn't been done.
Meghan worked independently today. She didn't give up or cling to me or whine when I had to finish working with Matthew so he could leave for co-op. She kept going and did other things.
Benedict had a happy day. He was energetic and excited about playing with the kids. Happy to have Meghan as his "snack friend."
I had remembered to defrost the chicken for tonight's dinner last night, so it was ready to go in the marinade at lunch time, and I remembered to put it there.
Joseph worked independently this morning and reviewed for an exam with me in the kitchen while I baked a lemon pound cake (from this blog) for our Presentation Day feast.
Katie wrote papers and printed out papers for me to grade.
I had a few minutes to clean out the birdbath. Matthew happily refilled the bird feeder when he got home. No drama.
Dinner was ready on time.
John got home from the train just as I was lighting the candles.
We had a nice conversation at dinner and remembered to pray Evening Prayer for the Feast of the Presentation.
And Joseph played Carol of the Bells, a last splash of Christmas at the end of the day. Tomorrow, we will put away the Nativity scene and take down the outdoor lights, the last vestiges of our Christmas celebration, saved to tonight's feast of light for the One who is the Light of the world.
An Ordinary day. And yet, not. It was the first time in many days that so many things have gone right, gone peacefully.
I am feeling so grateful for this day. This happy, healthy, ordinary day. Thank you, dearest Lord, for the gift of this day.
Monday, April 28, 2014
Convection
A homeschooling mom friend from Misawa posted this awesome link on Facebook today.
And we just had to try this because, "we're studying rockets in science, Mom," and "I just read about convection in my science book."
Later, they went out and burned our old Palm Sunday palms and a couple of worn out scapulars and buried the ashes in the garden.
Boys. Fire. All in the name of Science (and religion, apparently). :-)
And we just had to try this because, "we're studying rockets in science, Mom," and "I just read about convection in my science book."
Later, they went out and burned our old Palm Sunday palms and a couple of worn out scapulars and buried the ashes in the garden.
Boys. Fire. All in the name of Science (and religion, apparently). :-)
Tuesday, April 22, 2014
Paint ideas: a work in progress
Because I need to gather this info somewhere and I don't have time to figure out Instagram
Dining room:
Benjamin Moore Palladian Blue above the chair rail, Dove White below = LOVE!!
Before:
After:
Living room:
wall color: Benjamin Moore Pittsfield Buff; not sure I got it quite right, but we like it a lot better than the mushroom greige that was here
bookshelves and window seat: hoping to do this over the summer. They will be painted Dove White to match the trim and fireplace mantel that the kids and I repainted last summer.
Idea #1
Front hall, back hall, stairway:
I bought a gallon of Ben Moore Windham Cream last summer and then lost my nerve. Would it flow between the living and dining rooms? the dining room and kitchen? or just cut things off? Still not sure. Halls are still mushroom greige: HELP!
Windham Cream design photo from Houzz
Kitchen: Staying grey-green as it is for now
Girls' room: green and white; wonder what color it is--need to investigate abandoned paint cans in the basement
Boys' room:
Benjamin Moore Blue and maps. They nixed the baseball theme after Matthew freaked out about the idea of a giant baseball flying toward him from the wall mural. Sad for me, but okay. It's their room, after all.
Our room:
I'm unsure of what to do here: green? blue? grey? Definitely need new bedside lamps.
School room:
I'd like to use the yellow on the accent wall in this post in our school room.
Done! With Dove White trim. And I love it. :-)
Before:
After:
Dining room:
Benjamin Moore Palladian Blue above the chair rail, Dove White below = LOVE!!
Before:
After:
Living room:
wall color: Benjamin Moore Pittsfield Buff; not sure I got it quite right, but we like it a lot better than the mushroom greige that was here
bookshelves and window seat: hoping to do this over the summer. They will be painted Dove White to match the trim and fireplace mantel that the kids and I repainted last summer.
Idea #1
Front hall, back hall, stairway:
I bought a gallon of Ben Moore Windham Cream last summer and then lost my nerve. Would it flow between the living and dining rooms? the dining room and kitchen? or just cut things off? Still not sure. Halls are still mushroom greige: HELP!
Windham Cream design photo from Houzz
Kitchen: Staying grey-green as it is for now
Girls' room: green and white; wonder what color it is--need to investigate abandoned paint cans in the basement
Boys' room:
Benjamin Moore Blue and maps. They nixed the baseball theme after Matthew freaked out about the idea of a giant baseball flying toward him from the wall mural. Sad for me, but okay. It's their room, after all.
Our room:
I'm unsure of what to do here: green? blue? grey? Definitely need new bedside lamps.
School room:
I'd like to use the yellow on the accent wall in this post in our school room.
Done! With Dove White trim. And I love it. :-)
Before:
After:
Thursday, April 17, 2014
Tuesday, April 1, 2014
Living an idea, or, Why in the world our family lives in an urban area by choice
It has been almost a year since I posted asking for your prayers for us as we searched for a house to buy. We did find a suitable house. Not our dream house, but a sturdy house with enough living space and bedrooms not only to accommodate all of us, a lovely young lady boarder, and occasional guests, but also to allow us to "call the neighbors in" as we love to do.
The house is close enough to walk to those neighbors' homes, to Dan and Taryn's house, to church, to the park, to restaurants, a small organic market, a farmer's market, and both the metro and the train station where John begins and ends his daily commute. My sprout of an idea of walking or biking where we need to go is starting to blossom here.
The house was built in 1950. For the past five years, it was a rental property, and it shows. It needs a lot of work, both cosmetic and structural, but by the grace of God, the structure does seem mostly sound. We are watching a few cracks in the foundation of the sunroom addition. The roof will need to be replaced, possibly including many of the actual boards under the shingles, in the next 3-5 years. And let's not talk about the retaining wall that keeps us from sliding off the hill. I have a dream for it, but it's going to take some time.
On the bright side, the moldy paneling, water-stained carpet, and root-bound floor tiles in the basement have been removed, mostly through the efforts of John and the local Catholic men's group, the Barnraisers. With the help of Katie's teenaged friends, new paint has freshened up the school room, dining room, and Patrick's room. More painting is yet to come. The "greige" paint (as the children call it) in the front hall and master bedroom has got to go! I'm a little stuck in choosing replacement colors, but hope to get past that by the time we get out of school and have time to paint. John and I are learning more every day about home maintenance. We are dreaming of new bookshelves for the living room. And we have learned that the simple act of hanging our own pictures on the walls resulted in making everyone feel more at home, more permanent, than any other thing.
With prayer, the welcoming spirits of our new neighbors, and God's grace, we are settling into this community.
It is the community, after all, that drew us here. Dan and Taryn discovered it and moved here first, in late winter two years ago. When they started telling us about it, we were intrigued. Here was a chance to live near family in a walkable community salted with Catholic neighbors who moved here with the intention of living in this place at this time: to do something beautiful for God and neighbor in what has been a beleaguered neighborhood inside the DC beltway.
Will Seath writes here about how it came to be.
And that is why we have chosen this busy, urban neighborhood, so different from our dreams of rural tranquility, in which to make our home.
The house is close enough to walk to those neighbors' homes, to Dan and Taryn's house, to church, to the park, to restaurants, a small organic market, a farmer's market, and both the metro and the train station where John begins and ends his daily commute. My sprout of an idea of walking or biking where we need to go is starting to blossom here.
The house was built in 1950. For the past five years, it was a rental property, and it shows. It needs a lot of work, both cosmetic and structural, but by the grace of God, the structure does seem mostly sound. We are watching a few cracks in the foundation of the sunroom addition. The roof will need to be replaced, possibly including many of the actual boards under the shingles, in the next 3-5 years. And let's not talk about the retaining wall that keeps us from sliding off the hill. I have a dream for it, but it's going to take some time.
On the bright side, the moldy paneling, water-stained carpet, and root-bound floor tiles in the basement have been removed, mostly through the efforts of John and the local Catholic men's group, the Barnraisers. With the help of Katie's teenaged friends, new paint has freshened up the school room, dining room, and Patrick's room. More painting is yet to come. The "greige" paint (as the children call it) in the front hall and master bedroom has got to go! I'm a little stuck in choosing replacement colors, but hope to get past that by the time we get out of school and have time to paint. John and I are learning more every day about home maintenance. We are dreaming of new bookshelves for the living room. And we have learned that the simple act of hanging our own pictures on the walls resulted in making everyone feel more at home, more permanent, than any other thing.
With prayer, the welcoming spirits of our new neighbors, and God's grace, we are settling into this community.
It is the community, after all, that drew us here. Dan and Taryn discovered it and moved here first, in late winter two years ago. When they started telling us about it, we were intrigued. Here was a chance to live near family in a walkable community salted with Catholic neighbors who moved here with the intention of living in this place at this time: to do something beautiful for God and neighbor in what has been a beleaguered neighborhood inside the DC beltway.
Will Seath writes here about how it came to be.
And that is why we have chosen this busy, urban neighborhood, so different from our dreams of rural tranquility, in which to make our home.
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Monday, March 31, 2014
Science!
One of the best things about our new city is the group of Catholic homeschoolers we have joined here. We are able to meet weekly for children's adoration, Sunday gospel reading and discussion, and social time (playing board games).
Even better, Wendy, a mom of six and a scientist is teaching a group astronomy class for the grade school set. Matthew is participating and Joseph is a lab assistant. Meghan is anxiously awaiting the day when she gets to join them for rocket building. Hooray for excitement about science!
Links to Wendy's write-ups of the awesome first two classes:
Week 1
Week 2: Planets, Part 2
Updates:
Week 3: The Moon
Week 4: The Sun
Even better, Wendy, a mom of six and a scientist is teaching a group astronomy class for the grade school set. Matthew is participating and Joseph is a lab assistant. Meghan is anxiously awaiting the day when she gets to join them for rocket building. Hooray for excitement about science!
Links to Wendy's write-ups of the awesome first two classes:
Week 1
Week 2: Planets, Part 2
Updates:
Week 3: The Moon
Week 4: The Sun
Wednesday, May 1, 2013
Looking for "a good house where God wants us to live"
That's Meghan's prayer, and we're working on it.
We have met with our credit union and a realtor. We have toured a few houses. We have missed seeing a few houses before contracts were signed on them.
30-day novena to St. Joseph begins today, the Feast of St. Joseph the Worker. Want to join us?
EWTN has the words of the prayer here.
Thank you (in advance) for your prayers!
We have met with our credit union and a realtor. We have toured a few houses. We have missed seeing a few houses before contracts were signed on them.
30-day novena to St. Joseph begins today, the Feast of St. Joseph the Worker. Want to join us?
EWTN has the words of the prayer here.
Thank you (in advance) for your prayers!
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Monday, April 22, 2013
So how was your weekend?
Friday started out like any normal Friday. The kids did their schoolwork; we walked down to noon Mass, and Joseph mowed our front lawn. Friday night, John, Joseph, and Matthew served for Confirmation. Joseph was a Bishop's attendant and got to wear a special cape (on top of his cassock and surplice) to cover his hands while holding the miter. Until just before the Sacrament was conferred, when he was overcome by the heat. He got to the open window in the sacristy in time to avoid fainting and remove the cape, but then he threw up instead. Poor guy! So John helped Joseph clean up the window sill, and Matthew, the lowly boat boy, was promoted to Bishop's attendant for the remainder of the Mass. He was floating on air when he got home.
He came into my room absolutely beaming and said to me, "Did you hear about the catastrophe at church?"
"No. No one has told me anything about it yet," I replied, putting down the laundry I was folding.
"Oh! It was beautiful!"
"Really? what happened?"
"Joseph has to tell you."
Joseph took the whole thing with good humor. He had felt better and returned to the sanctuary during the Liturgy of the Eucharist and partaken of the celebratory cake afterwards.
Saturday, Joseph, who has started a lawn-mowing business in order to pay for Boy Scout summer camp, had his first job at 7 a.m. Friday night's thunderstorm made the grass too wet to mow, so we walked over, met the lady, saw what she needed done, and arranged to have him come back this morning to do the work. Then, we went out to buy him a baseball glove (which was his long-awaited birthday present) and white baseball pants. Matthew also needed pants--black ones. How, with all the white pants and grey pinstriped pants that we have in almost every size, it still ended up that both boys needed uniform pants, I'll never know. Murphy's law. Thankfully, they did already have the right combination of socks (well, almost--Joseph is supposed to have white socks with a black stripe--we have plain white, navy stripe, red stripe, orange stripe, but no black stripe and no striped socks at the sporting goods store or Target. So he's going with plain white), belts, red t-shirts, protective gear, and cleats.
After the sporting goods store, Joseph came home to do chores until 11:00 when it was time to mow Uncle Dan and Aunt Taryn's lawn. He started in on that, intending to spend two hours before his baseball game. While he was working, he got a call that his game was changed to a practice because the game field was too wet. I guess the practice field was not. It saved John about 90 minutes of driving, so no complaints here.
Joseph spent about 3 1/2 hours on the aunt & uncle's lawn, then went to practice for 2 hours, then came home, begged off on weeding Dan and Taryn's garden until Tuesday, finished his home chores, hung out with a friend for a few minutes, ate dinner (glad I made Irish stew so he had something hearty), checked his email, and went to bed.
In between driving Joseph places, John finished Patrick's financial aid application, started putting the polyurethane on the cabinet he's finishing for the art supplies, and went to work on the thousands of dandelions in the yard. We're renting, but we're still supposed to keep the yard looking presentable, and in this neighborhood, that means digging up dandelions.
I also did some driving to pick Joseph up from lawn mowing and drop him off at baseball practice, went to the organic market for milk and to Target for night-light bulbs, batteries, and a failed attempt to find a mesh thingamajig to put over the end of the washing machine hose to reduce the amount of lint going into the basement sink drain. Not that it keeps it from overflowing the sink at least once a month, but, hey, it must be keeping it from overflowing the sink every week, right? Right? Still. Didn't find one. I was sure I got them at Target last time.
Then, I made Irish stew with the leg bones and leftover lamb from our Easter feast. And Irish brown bread. Yummy! While the bread was baking and the stew was, well, stewing, I went out to pull weeds in the garden beds. I did about a one-square yard area before I ran out of time. There are so many weeds here, I can see that it's going to be a daily chore for everyone all summer to keep up with this garden. Good thing we homeschool so we're home and have plenty of extra time every day.
ha!
Sunday, John and the boys served Mass, and it was our weekend to set up and clean up the post-Mass social. This is actually not a hard job at all, and we do it with Dan and Taryn, so it turns out to be fun. It takes time, though. We got home at about 1:15, and Joseph helped John cook brunch while I made the fruit salad. John and I went out to look at a couple of houses--nothing spectacular yet, but when we saw a house on a good street that we hadn't even known was for sale and is already under contract, we realized that we really need a realtor. Lesson learned. When we got home, I sent an email to the realtor Dan and Taryn worked with last winter.
While John and Meghan very industriously went outside to pull more weeds, I snatched an hour to read. For fun. Ahhhhhh! Sunday rest! 0:-D
The boys were at the creek with friends: a well-deserved playtime for Joseph. They stayed down there until almost 6 p.m. when Joseph went off with John to Boy Scout Troop Leader Training at church. I made a simple dinner for the rest of us: leftover fruit salad, a raw veggie plate, leftover tzatziki, and some cheese and crackers. After Meghan and Matthew were in bed, I finished my book. Hooray!
Katie was sick all weekend and pretty much stayed in bed except to do her chores on Saturday and go to Mass on Sunday. She didn't run the neighborhood 5K after all. Her friend and running partner came down with strep throat on Thursday, and by Saturday morning, Katie was feeling horrible too.
Meghan did her chores and hung out at home with Katie. She has had a terrible cold since we got back from Massachusetts last Monday, so she and I opted not to go to Confirmation on Friday. Ordinarily, I might have taken her. Bishops' Masses are exciting (who knew how exciting this one was going to be!?), but it was raining, and I didn't think we should drag her out at bedtime. She was happy to stay at home, which tells me she was tired. Normally, she wants to go everywhere everyone else is going. She did go out with John to help pull weeds in the yard on Sunday afternoon and gave me a minute-by-minute report before dinner.
Back to her old self, I think.
So that was our weekend.
I'm ready for the regular schedule of a regular week now.
Except for the clogged kitchen sink.
He came into my room absolutely beaming and said to me, "Did you hear about the catastrophe at church?"
"No. No one has told me anything about it yet," I replied, putting down the laundry I was folding.
"Oh! It was beautiful!"
"Really? what happened?"
"Joseph has to tell you."
Joseph took the whole thing with good humor. He had felt better and returned to the sanctuary during the Liturgy of the Eucharist and partaken of the celebratory cake afterwards.
Saturday, Joseph, who has started a lawn-mowing business in order to pay for Boy Scout summer camp, had his first job at 7 a.m. Friday night's thunderstorm made the grass too wet to mow, so we walked over, met the lady, saw what she needed done, and arranged to have him come back this morning to do the work. Then, we went out to buy him a baseball glove (which was his long-awaited birthday present) and white baseball pants. Matthew also needed pants--black ones. How, with all the white pants and grey pinstriped pants that we have in almost every size, it still ended up that both boys needed uniform pants, I'll never know. Murphy's law. Thankfully, they did already have the right combination of socks (well, almost--Joseph is supposed to have white socks with a black stripe--we have plain white, navy stripe, red stripe, orange stripe, but no black stripe and no striped socks at the sporting goods store or Target. So he's going with plain white), belts, red t-shirts, protective gear, and cleats.
After the sporting goods store, Joseph came home to do chores until 11:00 when it was time to mow Uncle Dan and Aunt Taryn's lawn. He started in on that, intending to spend two hours before his baseball game. While he was working, he got a call that his game was changed to a practice because the game field was too wet. I guess the practice field was not. It saved John about 90 minutes of driving, so no complaints here.
Joseph spent about 3 1/2 hours on the aunt & uncle's lawn, then went to practice for 2 hours, then came home, begged off on weeding Dan and Taryn's garden until Tuesday, finished his home chores, hung out with a friend for a few minutes, ate dinner (glad I made Irish stew so he had something hearty), checked his email, and went to bed.
In between driving Joseph places, John finished Patrick's financial aid application, started putting the polyurethane on the cabinet he's finishing for the art supplies, and went to work on the thousands of dandelions in the yard. We're renting, but we're still supposed to keep the yard looking presentable, and in this neighborhood, that means digging up dandelions.
I also did some driving to pick Joseph up from lawn mowing and drop him off at baseball practice, went to the organic market for milk and to Target for night-light bulbs, batteries, and a failed attempt to find a mesh thingamajig to put over the end of the washing machine hose to reduce the amount of lint going into the basement sink drain. Not that it keeps it from overflowing the sink at least once a month, but, hey, it must be keeping it from overflowing the sink every week, right? Right? Still. Didn't find one. I was sure I got them at Target last time.
Then, I made Irish stew with the leg bones and leftover lamb from our Easter feast. And Irish brown bread. Yummy! While the bread was baking and the stew was, well, stewing, I went out to pull weeds in the garden beds. I did about a one-square yard area before I ran out of time. There are so many weeds here, I can see that it's going to be a daily chore for everyone all summer to keep up with this garden. Good thing we homeschool so we're home and have plenty of extra time every day.
ha!
Sunday, John and the boys served Mass, and it was our weekend to set up and clean up the post-Mass social. This is actually not a hard job at all, and we do it with Dan and Taryn, so it turns out to be fun. It takes time, though. We got home at about 1:15, and Joseph helped John cook brunch while I made the fruit salad. John and I went out to look at a couple of houses--nothing spectacular yet, but when we saw a house on a good street that we hadn't even known was for sale and is already under contract, we realized that we really need a realtor. Lesson learned. When we got home, I sent an email to the realtor Dan and Taryn worked with last winter.
While John and Meghan very industriously went outside to pull more weeds, I snatched an hour to read. For fun. Ahhhhhh! Sunday rest! 0:-D
The boys were at the creek with friends: a well-deserved playtime for Joseph. They stayed down there until almost 6 p.m. when Joseph went off with John to Boy Scout Troop Leader Training at church. I made a simple dinner for the rest of us: leftover fruit salad, a raw veggie plate, leftover tzatziki, and some cheese and crackers. After Meghan and Matthew were in bed, I finished my book. Hooray!
Katie was sick all weekend and pretty much stayed in bed except to do her chores on Saturday and go to Mass on Sunday. She didn't run the neighborhood 5K after all. Her friend and running partner came down with strep throat on Thursday, and by Saturday morning, Katie was feeling horrible too.
Meghan did her chores and hung out at home with Katie. She has had a terrible cold since we got back from Massachusetts last Monday, so she and I opted not to go to Confirmation on Friday. Ordinarily, I might have taken her. Bishops' Masses are exciting (who knew how exciting this one was going to be!?), but it was raining, and I didn't think we should drag her out at bedtime. She was happy to stay at home, which tells me she was tired. Normally, she wants to go everywhere everyone else is going. She did go out with John to help pull weeds in the yard on Sunday afternoon and gave me a minute-by-minute report before dinner.
Back to her old self, I think.
So that was our weekend.
I'm ready for the regular schedule of a regular week now.
Except for the clogged kitchen sink.
Monday, April 8, 2013
On religious freedom
Today is the last day to submit comments on the HHS Mandate. I have been putting this off, but I do believe strongly that the new conscience exceptions are completely inadequate. So I finally made time this morning. I said the following:
Please provide broader conscience protection under the HHS mandate. As it stands, the conscience protections do not extend far enough. As a Catholic business owner, my dad for many years has provided health insurance for his employees in order to ensure that they have access to necessary medical care. Under the current mandate, he can no longer offer health insurance to his employees without violating his conscience on the issues of abortion, sterilization, and contraception.
As Catholics, we must live our faith both privately and publicly. Vatican II states, "The layman, at one and the same time a believer and a citizen of the world, has only a single conscience, a Christian conscience; it is by this that he must be guided continually in both domains." (Paragraph 5, Decree on the Apostolate of Lay People, November 18, 1965.) To provide insurance that pays for contraception, sterilization, or abortion would violate the Christian conscience of any Catholic or Christian business owner just as much as it violates the conscience of a Church-run school, hospital, or charitable operation.
The Church and its faithful members believe that contraception, sterilization, and abortion are grave evils that cause deep psychological and spiritual harm to the very women and men they are meant to help. How can a person who sincerely holds that understanding, based on current science as well as anecdotal evidence from those who have been harmed by these activities (see the studies and testimonies on the websites of One More Soul, Feminists for Life, and Silent No More), then pay for insurance that provide those exact harmful things for others? It's not rational to provide something harmful to another person. It violates the conscience of the person who is forced to provide something he or she knows to be harmful to another.
Please broaden the conscience protections under the HHS Mandate to include all those who object to providing contraception, sterilization, and abortion for religious or moral reasons.
So I'm on record now.
If you'd like to comment, you can go here.
Please provide broader conscience protection under the HHS mandate. As it stands, the conscience protections do not extend far enough. As a Catholic business owner, my dad for many years has provided health insurance for his employees in order to ensure that they have access to necessary medical care. Under the current mandate, he can no longer offer health insurance to his employees without violating his conscience on the issues of abortion, sterilization, and contraception.
As Catholics, we must live our faith both privately and publicly. Vatican II states, "The layman, at one and the same time a believer and a citizen of the world, has only a single conscience, a Christian conscience; it is by this that he must be guided continually in both domains." (Paragraph 5, Decree on the Apostolate of Lay People, November 18, 1965.) To provide insurance that pays for contraception, sterilization, or abortion would violate the Christian conscience of any Catholic or Christian business owner just as much as it violates the conscience of a Church-run school, hospital, or charitable operation.
The Church and its faithful members believe that contraception, sterilization, and abortion are grave evils that cause deep psychological and spiritual harm to the very women and men they are meant to help. How can a person who sincerely holds that understanding, based on current science as well as anecdotal evidence from those who have been harmed by these activities (see the studies and testimonies on the websites of One More Soul, Feminists for Life, and Silent No More), then pay for insurance that provide those exact harmful things for others? It's not rational to provide something harmful to another person. It violates the conscience of the person who is forced to provide something he or she knows to be harmful to another.
Please broaden the conscience protections under the HHS Mandate to include all those who object to providing contraception, sterilization, and abortion for religious or moral reasons.
So I'm on record now.
If you'd like to comment, you can go here.
Monday, March 25, 2013
Spring snow
Pausing for Tea on a Snowy Morning
(with sincere apology to Robert Frost)
Whose flakes these are I think I know.
His heart is with His children, so
I know He sees me pausing here
To watch His world fill up with snow.
My little children think it queer
To stop and sit at window clear
To gaze in peace and sip my mug
This fifth spring morning of the year.
They give my bathrobe sleeve a tug
And ask for lap and kiss and hug.
The silent morning wakes from sleep
With joyous shrieks and boots pulled snug.
The snow is fluffy, wet, and deep,
But I have school and home to keep,
And hours to go before I sleep,
And hours to go before I sleep.
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Tuesday, February 26, 2013
Papal lapbook
I thought I was so original in planning to do a lapbook of our study on the Papal transition. Then I went here and was humbled. Oh, well, it is Lent after all.
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Homeschool resources
On Saturday, I hosted a tea for the local Catholic homeschool moms. After being the only Catholic homeschooler our last couple of years in Japan, I was very excited that there were nine of us!
Today, I thought I would write up a list of resources for moms who are thinking about homeschooling, especially for little ones, and I put it in an email to the hyattsmoms Yahoo group. But I want to keep it here, too, so I can find it again and not have to retype it.
Hello, Ladies,
Thank you all again for all the great ideas you shared on Saturday at tea. Below
are some links to resources that I mentioned or was asked about and a few that I
thought of later. Wendy, Jolene, and Therese, I hope you will have time this
week to reply with links for the awesome things you shared, too.
You truly don't need to purchase a pre-made program in order to have a
successful preschool at home, but it can help you to make your plan for the
year. It is easy to spend a lot of money on curricula that don't work out, so
please take me up on my offer to borrow or at least look through books before
you decide what to buy. :)
You are in my prayers as you and your husbands discern the best educational
paths for your children.
Blessings,
Judy
LENT STUFF:
Stations of the Cross pictures are available from Catholic Heritage Curricula
and Leaflet Missal Company:
CHC: https://www.chcweb.com/catalog/StationsofCrossPrints/product_info.html
Leaflet Missal 8x10:
http://www.leafletonline.com/8-X-10-STATIONS-OF-THE-CROSS-ILLUSTRATIONS/producti\
nfo/26363/
4x6:
http://www.leafletonline.com/4-X-6-STATIONS-OF-THE-CROSS-ILLUSTRATIONS/productin\
fo/26365/
I cannot find the 7-candle tealight holder online. I think it came from Craft
Warehouse out in Washington State in an after-Christmas sale. The thing is, if
you have an idea of how you could fit the Stations in your home and where you
might like to put them, you can find something for your space and in your own
style, and it will be lovely. Keep ideas like this in mind and the right thing
will turn up in a thrift shop or yard sale. :-)
For those who are still deciding whether to homeschool or not:
GENERAL HOMESCHOOLING books (an obvious classical and montessori bent here--I
haven't kept the books I didn't follow after we figured out how we wanted to
homeschool :-)) These are all on my shelf and you may borrow if you like:
Catholic Education: Homeward Bound, Kimberly Hahn and Mary Hasson
Catholic Home Schooling, Mary Kay Clark (a little dated, but still worth
mentioning)
Home Grown Kids, Raymond and Dorothy Moore (the only non-Catholic book in the
list, but worthwhile insights on readiness that led to Washington State's
decision to delay required public school entry to age 8)
Designing Your Own Classical Curriculum, Laura Berquist
The Well Trained Mind, Wise and Bauer
The Trivium, Sr. Miriam Joseph, CSC, Ph.D.
The Montessori Method, Maria Montessori
PRESCHOOL PROGRAMS and RESOURCES:
Little Saints Catholic Preschool program (I own this if someone would like to
take a look at it). You can purchase it here:
http://emmanuelbooks.com/product_detail.cfm/ID/649/OID//Little-Saints-A-Catholic\
-Preschool-Program-with-Classical-Disciplines/
Alphabet Path (all online, from a Catholic mom, Elizabeth Foss, who writes for
the Arlington (VA) Catholic paper) starts here with A, and other letters are
linked in the blog post:
http://www.elizabethfoss.com/serendipity/along_the_alphabet_path/
And one I forgot to mention on Saturday: I have found the book list in Catholic
Mosaic helpful in suggesting picture books and accompanying activities that
follow the liturgical year. I have this if anyone would like to take a look at
it. Or you can buy it at this link:
http://hillsideeducation.com/store/index.php?main_page=index&cPath=9_10
Another one I forgot to mention is Natural Structure (all online): an idea about
combining Montessori works with Classical Education that has inspired our
family's preschool:
http://www.nsmontessori.com/index.html
We have also had fun with the craft ideas for the liturgical year on the
following two blogs. You may already know about these or others that are also
great (please share!), but just in case:
Homeschool Goodies: http://thankevann.com/homeschoolgoodies/
Catholic Icing: http://catholicicing.com/
A.M.D.G.
Today, I thought I would write up a list of resources for moms who are thinking about homeschooling, especially for little ones, and I put it in an email to the hyattsmoms Yahoo group. But I want to keep it here, too, so I can find it again and not have to retype it.
Hello, Ladies,
Thank you all again for all the great ideas you shared on Saturday at tea. Below
are some links to resources that I mentioned or was asked about and a few that I
thought of later. Wendy, Jolene, and Therese, I hope you will have time this
week to reply with links for the awesome things you shared, too.
You truly don't need to purchase a pre-made program in order to have a
successful preschool at home, but it can help you to make your plan for the
year. It is easy to spend a lot of money on curricula that don't work out, so
please take me up on my offer to borrow or at least look through books before
you decide what to buy. :)
You are in my prayers as you and your husbands discern the best educational
paths for your children.
Blessings,
Judy
LENT STUFF:
Stations of the Cross pictures are available from Catholic Heritage Curricula
and Leaflet Missal Company:
CHC: https://www.chcweb.com/catalog/StationsofCrossPrints/product_info.html
Leaflet Missal 8x10:
http://www.leafletonline.com/8-X-10-STATIONS-OF-THE-CROSS-ILLUSTRATIONS/producti\
nfo/26363/
4x6:
http://www.leafletonline.com/4-X-6-STATIONS-OF-THE-CROSS-ILLUSTRATIONS/productin\
fo/26365/
I cannot find the 7-candle tealight holder online. I think it came from Craft
Warehouse out in Washington State in an after-Christmas sale. The thing is, if
you have an idea of how you could fit the Stations in your home and where you
might like to put them, you can find something for your space and in your own
style, and it will be lovely. Keep ideas like this in mind and the right thing
will turn up in a thrift shop or yard sale. :-)
For those who are still deciding whether to homeschool or not:
GENERAL HOMESCHOOLING books (an obvious classical and montessori bent here--I
haven't kept the books I didn't follow after we figured out how we wanted to
homeschool :-)) These are all on my shelf and you may borrow if you like:
Catholic Education: Homeward Bound, Kimberly Hahn and Mary Hasson
Catholic Home Schooling, Mary Kay Clark (a little dated, but still worth
mentioning)
Home Grown Kids, Raymond and Dorothy Moore (the only non-Catholic book in the
list, but worthwhile insights on readiness that led to Washington State's
decision to delay required public school entry to age 8)
Designing Your Own Classical Curriculum, Laura Berquist
The Well Trained Mind, Wise and Bauer
The Trivium, Sr. Miriam Joseph, CSC, Ph.D.
The Montessori Method, Maria Montessori
PRESCHOOL PROGRAMS and RESOURCES:
Little Saints Catholic Preschool program (I own this if someone would like to
take a look at it). You can purchase it here:
http://emmanuelbooks.com/product_detail.cfm/ID/649/OID//Little-Saints-A-Catholic\
-Preschool-Program-with-Classical-Disciplines/
Alphabet Path (all online, from a Catholic mom, Elizabeth Foss, who writes for
the Arlington (VA) Catholic paper) starts here with A, and other letters are
linked in the blog post:
http://www.elizabethfoss.com/serendipity/along_the_alphabet_path/
And one I forgot to mention on Saturday: I have found the book list in Catholic
Mosaic helpful in suggesting picture books and accompanying activities that
follow the liturgical year. I have this if anyone would like to take a look at
it. Or you can buy it at this link:
http://hillsideeducation.com/store/index.php?main_page=index&cPath=9_10
Another one I forgot to mention is Natural Structure (all online): an idea about
combining Montessori works with Classical Education that has inspired our
family's preschool:
http://www.nsmontessori.com/index.html
We have also had fun with the craft ideas for the liturgical year on the
following two blogs. You may already know about these or others that are also
great (please share!), but just in case:
Homeschool Goodies: http://thankevann.com/homeschoolgoodies/
Catholic Icing: http://catholicicing.com/
A.M.D.G.
Saturday, November 24, 2012
Our New Home #2
Here are some different views of our Family & School Room. We think it has everything we need to relax and spend time together...books, piano, pillows, light, books, games (in the cabinet under the windows seat), books, etc. The only "television" we have is the computer monitor, which is tucked away in the armoire. We occasionally arrange the pillows to recline and watch a movie together. There's no end to the activities Matthew and Meghan can find to do in this room. Every day, Joseph serenades us playing Pachelbel's Kanon and other songs as he practices on the piano. Meghan sits at the little table for school while Joseph and Matthew share the white desk. Judy teaches from the window seat. (Katie does most of her school work at the desk in her room.)
Wednesday, November 14, 2012
Our New Home #1
This is our new living room! It looks and feels homey. Thanks, Judy and Katie! I think this is the first time we've ever displayed my Bukhara carpet...
Washington Monument
This is the first Washington Monument. It's located near Boonesboro, Maryland. Joseph and I saw it during BSA Troop 224's monthly camping trip in October.
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
Prayer
Following Catholic tradition and the exhortation of St. Paul to "pray constantly", I attempt to read Morning Prayer when I arise each day. I say "attempt", because some days I just don't manage it. Nonetheless, this is the reading for Wednesday of Week III--and the reading I encountered the morning after the 2012 US elections.
Very fitting. Rather than be upset about the elections, I decided to concentrate on the things I can do something about. Two that came easily to mind were Prayer and Fasting. More to follow...
Naked I came forth from my mother's womb,
and naked I shall go back again.
The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away;
blessed be the name of the Lord!
We accept good things from God;
and should we not accept evil?
Job 1: 21; 2: 10b
Very fitting. Rather than be upset about the elections, I decided to concentrate on the things I can do something about. Two that came easily to mind were Prayer and Fasting. More to follow...
Sunday, July 15, 2012
Saturday, July 7, 2012
Catholic places we have visited in Japan
Because some of John's compatriots in the Catholic Men of the Chapel asked:
(This is a work in progress. I will try to add links and photos and the real names of the churches as I find them.)
Our Lady of the Assumption, Misawa (Fr. Andre's church)
Sacred Heart Church, Towada
Seitai Hoshikai - Akita
Hakodate Catholic Churches
-old church (and Lourdes grotto)
- new church
Trappistine monastery in Hakodate
Furano church (Hokkaido)
Sendai cathedral
Tokyo cathedral (and Lourdes grotto)
Franciscan church in Roppongi
Narita catholic church
Kyoto cathedral
Niigata cathedral
Base churches:
Misawa AB
Iwakuni MCAS
Atsugi NAS
Nagasaki Urakami Cathedral
26 Martyrs Hill and Museum
Nyokodo--hut of Dr. Takashi Nagai
Seibu-no ______-- Franciscan monastery founded by St. Maximillian Kolbe
(Kolbe museum, kindergarten, boys' school, Lourdes grotto, church with side chapel of St. Max)
Oura historic church and former Latin school - Nagasaki
Oura new church
Bonus! Korean churches
Osan shopping area church
Myeong-dong Cathedral (and crypt with relics of the Korean Martyrs)
Yongsan North chapel
Extra Bonus!!! Thailand!
Chiang Mai Cathedral
Double Extra Bonus!!! New Zealand!
Christchurch Cathedral [no longer in use due to 2011 earthquakes :-(]
This is where Matthew threw up on John just as Midnight Mass was starting on Christmas Eve, so John and I went back to Mass in the wee hours of Christmas morning and found ourselves at a Traditional Latin Mass. Serendipity. :)
Wellington Church
Queenstown church
China - sort of
We did not have the freedom to leave our tour group in Beijing, but we did pass a large church while on the bus--we assume it is a government-approved church--and realized it was Catholic as we passed.
(This is a work in progress. I will try to add links and photos and the real names of the churches as I find them.)
Our Lady of the Assumption, Misawa (Fr. Andre's church)
Sacred Heart Church, Towada
Seitai Hoshikai - Akita
Hakodate Catholic Churches
-old church (and Lourdes grotto)
- new church
Trappistine monastery in Hakodate
Furano church (Hokkaido)
Sendai cathedral
Tokyo cathedral (and Lourdes grotto)
Franciscan church in Roppongi
Narita catholic church
Kyoto cathedral
Niigata cathedral
Base churches:
Misawa AB
Iwakuni MCAS
Atsugi NAS
Nagasaki Urakami Cathedral
26 Martyrs Hill and Museum
Nyokodo--hut of Dr. Takashi Nagai
Seibu-no ______-- Franciscan monastery founded by St. Maximillian Kolbe
(Kolbe museum, kindergarten, boys' school, Lourdes grotto, church with side chapel of St. Max)
Oura historic church and former Latin school - Nagasaki
Oura new church
Bonus! Korean churches
Osan shopping area church
Myeong-dong Cathedral (and crypt with relics of the Korean Martyrs)
Yongsan North chapel
Extra Bonus!!! Thailand!
Chiang Mai Cathedral
Double Extra Bonus!!! New Zealand!
Christchurch Cathedral [no longer in use due to 2011 earthquakes :-(]
This is where Matthew threw up on John just as Midnight Mass was starting on Christmas Eve, so John and I went back to Mass in the wee hours of Christmas morning and found ourselves at a Traditional Latin Mass. Serendipity. :)
Wellington Church
Queenstown church
China - sort of
We did not have the freedom to leave our tour group in Beijing, but we did pass a large church while on the bus--we assume it is a government-approved church--and realized it was Catholic as we passed.
St. Joseph
Now that we have our orders and many of the arrangements to leave Japan are proceeding, we are beginning to think harder about what we're doing when we get to Maryland. In other words, we're looking for a house to rent and a van to buy.
My second-youngest brother and his family live in Maryland, and we are hoping against hope to find a home near theirs. They have enticed us with stories of the neighborhood and, especially, their parish. Oh, my goodness, how we would love to participate in Mass at a parish that appreciates Latin! Even more, my brother is going way above the call of family duty to help us.
Whenever we need a home, St. Joseph always prays for us, and the right home comes available just as we need it. So, following Meghan's prayer for "Daddy to get the best job where God wants us to go," we are also praying for the best home where God wants us to live. We will start our novena to St. Joseph tonight. :)
Oh, St. Joseph, whose protection is so great, so strong, so prompt before the throne of God. I place in you all my interests and desires.
Oh, St. Joseph, do assist me by your powerful intercession, and obtain for me from your Divine Son all spiritual blessings, through Jesus Christ, our Lord. So that, having engaged here below your heavenly power, I may offer my thanksgiving and homage to the most loving of Fathers.
Oh, St. Joseph, I never weary of contemplating you, and Jesus asleep in your arms; I dare not approach while He reposes near your heart. Press Him in my name and kiss His fine head for me and ask him to return the Kiss when I draw my dying breath.
St. Joseph, Patron of departing souls - Pray for us.
Amen.
And in advance thanksgiving, we have ordered an icon for our parish here in honor of St. Joseph. It will hang in our Blessed Sacrament chapel and it looks like this:
St. Joseph, pray for us!
AMDG
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